BLOG: Dating websites for BDSM enthusiasts do exist and are very busy… as this a popular dating desire…
For those who are not aware, I am going to deal with the definition of BDSM for those who do not know. BDSM is a short hand way of grouping people who may share desires or may only be interested in one of the dating desires within this grouping. B stands for Bondage. D stands for Dominance. S stands for Submission and M stands for Sadomasochism. For some people this is shocking. For others it is not shocking but interesting and they actively seek domination dating . For some people however one or several of these “persuasions” shall we say is actually one of the things they desire (I am not using the word enjoy because there is a distinction which i will expand a little next) the most or greatly from romance. Some of these juxtapositions of words again will seem incompatible to some people such as “Desire” & “Bondage”. Some people might say “but how could you want to have that done to you”, and while it can be complex, there is nothing to worry about because this is actually play acting and they enjoy it so its not actually harmful, in fact it actually makes them feel good. So its not dangerous, its not “serious” and the community are very careful to make sure that these boundaries are not crossed.
BDSM is a very poplar way of dating and romance with many sites which can be found by simply looking for My BDSM Hookups for example will yield lots of results of sites that are very well maintained and very well populated with singles and couples finding love online and meeting up. An entire fashion industry is actually sustained by this and we have all been at the fancy dress parties where someone turns up in leather and cat o nine tails (toy) and a dog collar with a lead! Its actually really super fun when people dress up like that… but indeed this is exactly the type of clothing that is popular within this if you will “counter-culture” and its really very popular. This is of course even at the fancy dress party accessing the world of fantasy (not necessarily sexual) so even in a relatively day to day experience at a fancy dress party is touching on this culture of BDSM.
There are many people who take this further and again in a playful way explore this aspect of fantasy and imagination and will perhaps experiment and come to the conclusion that their idea of romance and love and cohabiting in suburbia for example would and should include BDSM in the home or at parties with others and in fact buying products online such as leather cat suits, adult size babies clothing, and you know all the types of fashion that surround these areas. This is not knew… the clubs in Germany in the 1920s were absolutely famous for the shows and sort of London SOHO culture that was just captivating for those countries populations. They also as they do now have those who do frown on these activities and say that these people will go to “hell” which is ironic actually given the desires of hardcore sadomasochists.
Its actually mostly good fun and playful, it is in an entertainment way very much associated with passionate love stories and actually comedy!
So if you are drawn to BDSM do not hesitate to look online where you will find like minded people!
Very very best wishes!
Happy Dating!
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