Why Pay for Dating! There are so many great free dating sites ! > www.welovedates.com/nz/

Free dating sites are great, and they are advantageous for those seeking love. Why pay for dating!

Dating has just become so accessible online and the great thing is there are many, many free sites. but maybe you think it would be better to be on a paid site! there are strong arguments for this, it goes something like, a higher socio-economic person will be on paid sites! On face value this seems like an acceptable statement!

But is this really the case! Immediately what springs to mind is that so many wealthy people are also quite spend thrifty! So when choosing a dating website it is by no means a matter of logic to immediately assume only wealthy people will be on paid dating sites. This does not follow and that is a technical distinction! But is wealth the over riding consideration. Lets say that wealthy people only join paid dating sites! Then it could credibly be argued that wealth is the predominating factor in deciding to join a paid for dating site! Maybe wealth is not all that matters! In fact many would argue that wealth is not important at all! consider also that we have already suggested that wealthy people are actually spend thrifty so may not even be on paid for dating sites!

In western societies everyone is actually wealthy, with mostly houses to live in, beds to sleep in, with plenty of available employment and in many cases welfare systems for those who for genuine reasons cannot work especially given the abundance of work available! So, where does this leave us with paid sites!

Free Dating sites have as a matter of personal experience many many wealthy people on them, and furthermore the objective is to find someone you can actually connect with, and the literature would suggest that this is more a matter of personality compatibility than wealth. Finding people who’s personality has been moulded by genetic/biological scientific realities and the influence of environment makes the big five personality traits a much better determinant of compatibility along many factors including interests, tendencies, what people find enjoyment in! It make much more sense not to limit yourself by motives that do not take into consideration compatibility and so free dating websites which are of a much higher number and have so many different themes, and such a higher number of people as members will open that field of choice and will include many people who do fall into the relative wealthy category, or educated category, or any category you choose. This is especially important if you are approaching this from the perspective of a marital affair , that you are actually looking for someone to marry! So think about personality!

Free dating sites are just as technically developed as free sites! Dating and finding love is not determined by whether a site is paid or free and with so many more people on free sites you will be dramatically limiting your choices!

As always be responsible and safe!

Very, very best wishes!

RugbyRep Dating Editor.

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